
Category: All About Newton
News, events, children’s activities in Newton, MA.
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Newton in Motion Workshop
Dear Resident,I am writing to invite you to join us for a very important event coming up next week. On Thursday, February 4th-Saturday, February 6th, our Planning and Development department is teaming up with the Department of Public Works to host “Newton in Motion” a workshop that will help lead us toward an equitable, economically and environmentally sustainable multi-modal transportation system.We encourage interested residents to stop by 275 Needham Street (next to the CVS in Marshalls Plaza) on:* Thursday, February 4th from 10:00am-7:00pm* Friday, February 5th from 10:00am-7:00pm* Saturday, February 6th from 9:00am-12:00pmThere will also be a presentation from consultants Nelson/Nygaard at Noon on Thursday, 6:00pm on Friday, and 10:00amon Saturday. The Friday evening presentation will also include presenters from the Newton Housing Strategy, and MassDOT. All presentations will be made available online. Newton in Motion will have many kid-friendly activities, and we welcome families and children of all ages. Please stop by help set the vision and goals for how Newton’s transportation system is shaped in the future. For more information and to participate online, please click here.Sincerely,
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Lunar New Year Party to benefit ATASK
Saturday, February 6th, 2016
Todos Dance & Fitness Studio is hosting a Lunar New Year Party to benefit ATASK. Join us for a fun-filled evening of celebration and ballroom dancing. There will also be some light catering by Weston’s own Dumpling Daughter!
Admission is free. Onsite donations will be accepted, and proceeds from a raffle and silent auction will benefit families in need.
7pm-8pm: Interactive group dance lesson (no partner necessary, beginners are welcome)
8pm-10pm: General dancing and special dance performances
RSVP to todosstudio@gmail.com by January 29th.
Todos Dance & Fitness Studio
677 Worcester Street
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The Dos and Don’ts of Coats and Car Seats
The Dos and Don’ts of Coats and Car Seats
Tips by: Allana Pinkerton, Global Safety Advocate for DionoBIG DON’T: Never place a child in a car seat with a thick, bulky winter coat because the harness might not be snug enough to perform as it should during a crash.
WHY? If they are wearing a thick coat, the padding in the coat will not allow you to snug up the harness correctly and the harness will actually be loose on the child. The padding in the coat will compress during a crash until it gets to the body which doesn’t allow the child to ride the crash down appropriately.
Important to note: Car seat manufacturers cannot determine if it is safe to use a thick winter coat because they do not crash test with coats on the test dummies. They do test for misuse and they can determine if a loose harness causes injury.
DO: Follow the car seat manual for proper harness fit, installation and use. The manuals are written based on crash test data.
DO: Use an appropriate car seat no matter what the weather conditions are outside.
DO: If there are no safety issues in doing so, heat up the car ahead of time.
DO: Put a thin fleece jacket on your baby, toddler or older child.
DO: Put a toboggan hat and gloves on your child. This definitely helps retain some internal warmth.
DO: For a newborn baby, many infant carrier car seats come with a “warming boot” to put over the baby. If not, one may be purchased from the manufacturer of the car seat or they may have approved the use of one manufactured by another company.
DO: Throw a blanket around your child when carrying them out to the car to keep them warm. (If you are super nice, you might have even warmed it up in the dryer first.)
DO: Place them in the harness and snug it up. Then you can place the blanket over them so it doesn’t interfere with the harness and tuck it in around the child’s sides. To avoid the possibility of suffocation do not put the blanket near their head.
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New Pop Up Floral Company at The Street
NEW, LOCALLY OWNED, EXPERIENTIAL
FLORAL COMPANY,
ALICE’S TABLE,
DEBUTS at THE POP-UPToday, January 20th through February 16thAs the perfect lead up to Valentine’s Day, The Street announces Alice’s Table, a new, experiential floral company, debuts at The Pop-Up. Alice’s Table is the latest locally owned, highly creative brand to take over the space, and this is the company’s first ever retail storefront. Alice’s Table will also host a variety of its celebrated events in collaboration with such trendsetting neighbors as Jonathan Adler, Shake Shack, and DAVIDsTEA, all found at The Street. Alice’s Table is starting Wednesday, January 20, 2016 through Tuesday, February 16, 2016. The Pop-Up at The Street is located at 3 Boylston Street Chestnut Hill, MA.Founded in Boston in September 2015 by Alice Rossiter, Alice’s Table has quickly garnered a loyal local following for its creative floral arranging classes that offer a “girl’s night out with a twist,” as well as for its floral delivery subscriptions. A class with Alice’s Table typically starts with a cocktail, and is followed by 90 minutes of hands-on instruction, helping participants create their own arrangement to take home.
Visitors can expect to find flowers by the stem, small and large cut arrangements, a variety of exotic orchids, and, during the week of Valentine’s Day, roses by the dozen. Guests can place Valentine’s pre-orders in-store as of today. A selection of Vosges chocolates, Sugarfina candies, and gift certificates for Alice’s Table events are also for sale within The Pop-Up. All purchases of $25 or more come with a complimentary MiniLuxe manicure; MiniLuxe will open early February just two doors down from The Pop-Up at The Street.
As part of its unique stamp on floral services, Alice’s Table will host numerous creative collaborations with stores at The Street. Look for a Mother & Daughter workshop in partnership with DAVIDsTEA on Saturday, February 6, 2016 at 2pm at The Pop-Up, and a Flower Arranging Workshop for Men at Shake Shack on February 13, 2016 from 10am-11:30am. The Shake Shack workshop will uniquely allow men to create a DIY bouquet for their Valentine with step-by-step instruction from Alice’s Table and complimentary beer and snacks from Shake Shack; a portion of proceeds will be donated to a local charity. A variety of additional events with the likes of Jonathan Adler will be announced soon. Events start at $65 per person; interested guests can find current details and sign up online: www.alicestable.com.
Alice’s Table is open daily from today, Wednesday, January 20, 2016 through Tuesday, February 16, 2016. Its hours of operation are Monday through Saturday, 10:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. In honor of Valentine’s Day, it will offer extended hours on February 13th and 14th from 9am to 9pm.
Alice’s Table takes the place of luxury knitwear line, The Third Piece, which popped up at The Street in early January. To connect with Alice’s Table visit www.alicestable.com, call617-603-7439, and follow along on social media: Instagram: @alicestable; Facebook: Alice’s Table
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Downsizing Made Easy: FREE Seminar for Seniors
Susanne McInerney of the Mass Estate Team at RE/MAX Leading Edge and Newton Senior Center, Present Free Seminar, “Downsizing Made Easy”
5 Step System Helps Senior Citizens & Families Navigate Complexities of Moving
As the population ages, more and more senior citizens and their caregiver families are faced with the challenges of “downsizing”: usually a move for the elder from the traditional family home into a smaller apartment or an assisted living community.
To help Newton and area seniors and their families accomplish this life transition with the most ease, local real estate agent Susanne McInerney of the Mass Estate Team at RE/MAX Leading Edge has teamed with The Newton Senior Services to provide the free seminar “Downsizing Made Easy” at the Newton Senior Center located at Newton Senior Center, 345 Walnut Street in Newtonville. This casual – yet educational forum – will take place on Wednesday March 9, 2016 from 1:30PM-3:00PM.
The seminar will include presentation and discussion of The 5 Steps to Downsizing Made Easy along with topics including: questions to consider before making a move, senior living options in the Newton & surrounding area, questions for touring senior living communities, tips for hiring various professionals related to the moving process, guidance on estate sales and estate auctions, and many other pertinent topics.
“As a Newton and surrounding area Realtor who specializes in helping senior citizens and their families with their real estate needs, this part of my job is a great joy. Seniors and their families often don’t know which way to turn when making these important decisions,” says Susanne McInerney. “Downsizing and moving can certainly seem overwhelming, but I’m happy to share how it can simplified and actually made relatively easy.”
For Further Information Contact:
Susanne McInerney & the Mass Estate Team at RE/MAX Leading Edge,
294 Walnut St, Newtonville, MA 02460
(617) 413-4559 email:Sue@MassEstateTeam.com, visit her website at http://www.MassEstateTeam.comIlana Levine, Program Coordinator, Newton Department of Senior Services
345 Walnut Street, Newtonville, MA 02460, 617-796-1670 www.newtonseniors.org -

Washington Street Safety Issue FIXED
Dear Mr. Mayor,Thank you for yesterday’s sidewalk plowing and salting from Commonwealth Avenue to the Woodland Station, and beyond. I have never seen a better job in the 42 years that we have resided on Day Street. It was a pleasure to walk to the Woodland T station this morning and there were many joggers safely utilizing the walkway. I have already heard positive comments from my neighbors. Please forward my remarks and gratitude of your DPW staff as they too have been most helpful and responsive to ensure the safety of this neighborhood.Sincerely,Concerned Citizen———-This is in response to Concerned Citizen’s Safety Issue on Washington Street.
The even side of Washington Street from Commonwealth Avenue to the Woodland T Station is no longer part of the city maintained sidewalks for snowplowing. That said, the odd side of Washington Street from Commonwealth Avenue to the Woodland T will be plowed during future storms.
Thank you for taking the time to speak with me today regarding the sidewalk situation in front of 1900 Washington Street. I did take a look at this location and now understand the situation the refuse containers location is causing for pedestrian issues. A letter will be sent to the property owner notifying them of the need to remove the containers from the right-of-way. As discussed, the even side of Washington Street from Commonwealth Avenue to the Woodland T Station is no longer part of the city maintained sidewalks for snowplowing. That said, the odd side of Washington Street from Commonwealth Avenue to the Woodland T will be plowed during future storms.
Lastly, if sidewalks on the even side are not plowed or shoveled by the property owners a request can be made through the City’s WebQA/311 website. This will trigger DPW staff to perform a site visit and hang a flyer notifying the property owner of the city ordinance which requires them to perform snow and ice removal on their sidewalk. Thanks again for your time.
Respectfully,
Shane L. Mark M.S.
Director of Operations
Department of Public Works
City of Newton
1000 Commonwealth Ave.
Newton Centre, MA 02459
Office: 617-796-1494
Cell: 617-992-1553
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Concerned citizens bring up this safety point regarding not plowing one side of the street (the side which has the Woodland T Stop):
“it is so much busier on our side rather than the Lasell side. Plus you have hundreds of marathon training runners who are using our side for their weekend runs – they will be forced to run in the road or continually cross back and forth which isn’t safe. I’m happy to make a call to City Hall also on this –– they need to do both sides at a minimum.”
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Dear Concerned Citizen,
After further inspection and thought on this matter the sidewalks on the south side (EVEN) will be plowed from Commonwealth to the Woodland T station. In fact, the DPW department will plow the sidewalks on the even side of the street from Grove Street in Lower falls to Commonwealth Avenue. We trust this will help the pedestrians who use the sidewalks as a means of travel. Thank you.
Respectfully,
Shane L. Mark M.S.
Director of Operations
Department of Public Works
City of Newton
1000 Commonwealth Ave.
Newton Centre, MA 02459
Office: 617-796-1494
Cell: 617-992-1553
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Safety Issue on Washington Street
Dear Mr. McGonagle,Over the years, I have noticed the City several times about the blockage of the public sidewalk in front of 1900 Washington Street. This becomes more of an issue during the snow season as the sidewalk plow goes around the blockage by plowing into the street then re-entering past the blockage. This forces pedestrians onto Route 16 and into East bound traffic. The City’s last response, several years ago, was that the owner had been sent a letter. The pictures below identify the problem. I believe that such behavior violates a City ordinance. Additionally, as their property appears to jut out beyond their abutting property, in the foreground, Perhaps a matter for zoning. I wonder if they have intruded into City property.The last two pictures identify a problem that has existed since the sidewalk was redone years ago. The sidewalk plow cannot pass the pole in the middle of the walkway. That also forces the predestinations onto Route 16.Finally, I hope that the City has acquired a better sidewalk plow as for years the blade never gotten near the ground and the snow is only compacted by the plow’s tracks. That results in an icy condition after it has been walked upon and then freezes. Footprints are frozen in the walkway creating a hazardous condition.Thank you for your attention to this matter,Concerned Citizen -

Parenting children with ADD/ADHD by Cybill Goldberg
I met Cybill when my son was in preschool. She’s a very together person and when I learned that she is now a practicing therapist, I asked her to guest blog for me.
If you want to reach her, her contact information is:
Cybill S. Goldberg, LICSW634 Commonwealth AveSte 205Newton, MA 02459————
Parenting children with ADD/ADHD
By Cybill S. Goldberg, LICSW
“Don’t let yourself become so concerned with raising a good kid that you forget you already have one”
-Glennon Melton
Every parent wants the best for their child. Parenting a child with challenging behaviors can make that quest seem impossible at times. It is exhausting mentally, physically and emotionally, often leaving one feeling hopeless, as if they are failing as a parent. The painful cycle of self-blame beings and it doesn’t help to feel others may be blaming you too. This blame can grow into shame and isolation at a time when parents need support, validation and compassion.
As do their kids.
Assuming your child is PURPOSEFULLY acting out is going to get you no where fast. Blaming the child gets in the way of progressing to a healthier relationship. Many feel their child is being lazy, manipulative, attention-seeking, self-centered, and pushing the limits, when in fact they simply do not have the skill set to do otherwise. Once a parent is able to accept the fact that “children do well if they can”, it is much easier to diffuse their frustration when their child is struggling. Simply changing your parenting perspective can yield amazing change. Shifting your mind set from assuming the child’s behavior as “acting out” to the belief that the child is feeling challenged and is desperately grasping for a solution, will lead to a more positive outcome.
When the parent is able to successfully accept this point-of-view there is understanding and acceptance of why a reward/punishment system does not work with these children. I often make the analogy that if a child with dyslexia was struggling to read, a parent would not punish them with a time-out. Instead, they would compassionately support and offer guidance in developing the skills necessary to read successfully. It is the same with ADD/ADHD. We need to act compassionately and offer guideline to help these children succeed emotionally and relationally.
As a therapist who works with parents of ADD/ADHD children, we work together to identify the specific skills the child is lacking and move to include the child in problem solving each conflict or issue. To simplify, the presenting conflict may be the child refuses to brush his teeth. The parent has tried reward charts without success and even attempted to take away screen time if the child does not brush. The parent is exhausted and starts to think the child is purposefully being defiant, lazy and controlling.
The more productive intervention is to investigate with the child WHY he isn’t brushing and WHAT he proposes the solution to be. Surprisingly the child may say it it the taste of the toothpaste or the bristles on the brush that bother him. He may say he doesn’t like to brush at that specific time. This conversation is guiding the child to learn to identify and own the issue and reduce a reactive response.
The teeth-brushing story is overly simple but does help understand how to partner up with our children in a way that allows for less explosions and more connection. I believe this collaboration between parent and child is the core base to a happy healthy relationship and allows the child to develop sophisticated skills that will forever serve them.
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Norovirus in the News
Norovirus in the News: Norovirus is a very contagious virus. You can get norovirus from an infected person, contaminated food or water, or by touching contaminated surfaces. The virus causes your stomach or intestines or both to get inflamed (acute gastroenteritis). This leads you to have stomach pain, nausea, and diarrhea and to throw up. Anyone can be infected with norovirus and get sick.

Also, you can have norovirus illness many times in your life. Norovirus illness can be serious, especially for young children and older adults. Norovirus is the most common cause of acute gastroenteritis in the United States. Each year, it causes 19-21 million illnesses and contributes to 56,000-71,000 hospitalizations and 570-800 deaths. Norovirus is also the most common cause of foodborne-disease outbreaks in the United States. The best way to help prevent norovirus is to practice proper hand washing and general cleanliness.
A person infected with norovirus usually develops symptoms 12 to 48 hours after being exposed. Most people with norovirus illness get better within 1 to 3 days. If you have norovirus illness, you can feel extremely ill and throw up or have diarrhea many times a day. This can lead to dehydration, especially in young children, older adults, and people with other illnesses. Norovirus can spread quickly in closed places like daycare centers, nursing homes, schools, and cruise ships.
Most norovirus outbreaks happen from November to April in the United States.For more information about norovirus, including tips on what to do if you get norovirus illness, talk to the school nurse or visit www.cdc.gov/norovirus.
Article adapted from www.cdc.gov/norovirus
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6 Food Myths That Are Making Kids Fat
According to the Center for Disease Control, obesity rates in children are twice what they were 30 years ago. Many parents are unsure why their child is seemingly unable to stop gaining weight. Dr. Dyan Hes, Medical Director of Gramercy Pediatrics, explains some of the common food myths that are making kids fat.
“There is a lot of confusion surrounding healthy food choices,” says Dr. Hes. “A stroll down almost any supermarket isle in the country, and customers will find products that advertise healthy ingredients, when in reality they can lead to weight gain in children. It can be confusing for parents to decipher what the healthiest food options truly are.”
Dr. Hes advises parents to look out for these hazardous eating myths when trying to make healthier choices for their children:
Myth 1: Foods Labeled ‘Diet,’ ‘Gluten Free,’ and ‘Organic’ are Healthy Choices
Food trends and product labels can mislead people into believing they are eating a healthy diet. “When deciding what to feed growing children, it’s important to look at foods as a whole,” says Dr. Hes. “Look at things like sodium, artificial sweetener, nutritional value, and calories. All of these play a role in determining if a food item is healthy or not.”
Dr. Hes goes on to explain that sodium can lead to high blood pressure, even in children. Lowering sodium is especially important for children who are overweight in order to lower their risk for heart disease in the future. Parents should also look out for artificial sweeteners, which can make children want to eat more food, consequently consuming more calories than they otherwise would. Additionally, growing children need certain nutrients from their food. A slightly higher calorie meal might be a healthier option if it’s providing significant amounts of vitamin A, vitamin B, vitamin C, vitamin D, iron, and/or calcium.
Myth 2: Juice is A Healthy Drink for Kids
Many parents believe that since fruit is healthy, fruit juice is great for their children. However, this high-calorie sugary beverage could be contributing to weight gain. Some argue that the drinks have great nutritional value because they can be rich in vitamins, but Dr. Hes says that parents are better off giving their child fresh fruit to eat, which also contains fiber that is lost in the juicing process. The excess calories from juice also fill a child up so that they do not want to eat the solid foods that have fiber, protein, and healthy fats.
Myth 3: Cereal is a Great Way for Children to Start the Day
Cereal is an easy and tasty breakfast option for kids rushing to make the school bus. Beware, most child marketed cereal options contain more sugar than the standard dessert. Cereal can be tricky, misleading labels often advertise healthy ingredients, vitamins, and whole grains. These boasted benefits can be outweighed by the sugar quantity. The excessive glucose can lead to a rapid increase in blood sugar as well as an increase in calorie consumption. Dr. Hes recommends reading food labels carefully to replace sugary cereals with healthier options. She points out that parents need to keep a sharp eye out for sneaky sugar terms may appear on boxes such as organic molasses, bee honey, and organic sugar cane, which fool parents into believing that they are health cereals In addition, breakfast options like fruit, low-fat yogurt, eggs, and oatmeal give kids the energy they need without packing on the pounds.
Myth 4: Whole Wheat Bread is Healthy Bread
“There are fewer differences between white bread and whole wheat bread than most people believe,” Dr. Hes says. “They both have high levels of glucose that are broken down into the bloodstream the same way. This not only causes weight gain but can lead to a more serious health problem such as diabetes.”
If a package is labeled as whole wheat, it does not mean it contains the healthy grains children need. Processed whole wheat bread is almost entirely stripped of fiber. Be careful when reading bread labels and look for packages that read 100% whole grains. These healthier alternatives have been shown to allow for more balanced glucose level in children.
Myth 5: Frozen Yogurt is a Healthy Dessert Option
Frozen yogurt can be a healthier alternative to most ice creams, but that does not mean that it is the best option. Although most frozen yogurt is low-fat, it still contains more calories than most people imagine. A large cup of standard frozen yogurt is around 380 calories with 76g grams of sugar, not including toppings. Most kids prefer their flavored frozen yogurt with sugary toppings which can be just as fattening as ice cream. Adding sprinkles, candy, and artificial syrups leads to potentially harmful levels of sugar. Dr. Hes recommends serving plain low-fat frozen yogurt with fruit. The fruit will sweeten up the yogurt without adding unnecessary and harmful sugars. Also, make sure to keep the portion sizes small to lessen the buildup of calories.
Myth 6: Veggie Chips are a Healthy Alternative to Potato Chips
This sneaky snack often contains the same number of calories as potato chips, and can have the same weight gaining effects too. The small serving of vegetables found in veggie chips are countered by the high amounts of potato and corn flour. The vital nutrients that vegetables contain are lost in the process when veggie chips are manufactured. Dr. Hes recommends cutting out the processed potato altogether and making healthy vegetable snacks at home. Kale baked with a small amount of olive oil and salt is crispy like a potato chip, without having the same unhealthy ingredients that can compromise children’s health and weight.








